31 days

31 days – fall 2013 – newlyweds

Scroll Down to read Day One.

I’ll add a link to each new post here as it goes live.

Day 1 – Newlyweds
Day 2 – ch-ch-ch-changes
Day 3 – faith
Day 4 – quality time
Day 5 – daily prayers
Day 6 – finding a new church
Day 7 – establishing community
Day 8 – praying together
Day 9 – growing towards God
Day 10 – money
Day 11 – communicating about money
Day 12 – goal setting
Day 13 – budgeting 101
Day 14 – a helpful tool
Day 15 – easy ways to save
Day 16 – settling into a home on a budget
Day 17 – home life
Day 18 – cleaning schedule
Day 19 – meal planning
Day 20 – sick days
Day 21 – making our place “home”, pt. 1
Day 22 – making our place “home”, pt. 2
Day 23 – dinner for two
Day 24 – traditions
Day 25 – sunday at church
Day 26 – pizza friday
Day 27 – month-a-versaries
Day 28 – weekly questions
Day 29 – exploring our new city
Day 30 – date night
Day 31 – someone

Ever heard of a 31 day challenge? It’s where bloggers commit to writing about a particular topic for 31 days straight. No breaks. No weekends off. Just 31 days of post.

And tomorrow, I start my first 31 day challenge with The Nester!

I’m excited and yet somewhat nervous. Writing is usually something I do when it’s convenient or when I have something I want to talk about. And if you notice the frequency of posting Atwell Adventures – it certainly isn’t everyday. So why not challenge myself a little?

Day 1

Trying to decide on a topic to talk about for 31 days was harder than I expected {hopefully, not a preview of things to come}. I wanted to choose something that would stretch me and make me more creative in my writing, but also be natural fit. So I decided to write about the biggest recent change in my life: going from engaged to being a newlywed!

Newlyweds-G&R | Atwell Adventuresmove over Nick and Jessica… the new newlyweds are in town!

These past 85 days have taken me from being a fiancé to a wife, a resident of Georgia to a new home in North Carolina, a full time employee to a now stay at home wife.  It’s been a sweet time and I can’t wait to share more about it with you!

Each day after I write I’ll also list the links so at the end of the month it will be a nice little package-of-posts. Think of it as my Halloween gift to you. You’re welcome!

So here we go – 31 DAYS: NEWLYWEDS!

31 days - newlyweds | Atwell Adventures

Around the House

while the husband is away…

Last week, my sweet husband had the opportunity unfortunate job to live in the field for a week!

So why didn’t I tell you this sooner? Well, what if someone came across my blog, realized that the only person who knows how to operate the gun was going to be away for four nights, found my address, and decided to pay me a visit. No thank you, I’ll just keep that little bit of top-secret information to myself {and the family that I asked to pray for me so that I wouldn’t be scared}.

Here’s what I did {and didn’t do} while he was away…

  1. Skipped my weekly trip to the grocery store and making dinner each night {I got REALLY creative by the end of the week… smoothie, anyone?}.
  2. Held off the dreaded laundry day from Monday until Friday.
  3. Stayed up until 12:30 each night so that I would be tired enough to sleep all night {worked like a charm}.
  4. Made sure the doors were always dead bolted at night. Twice.
  5. Slept on the right side of the bed and didn’t move the pillows from the left side while I slept {can making the bed always be this easy?}.
  6. Said goodbye to my last week of cable.
  7. Showered {I’ll let you decide if that was a did or didn’t do item}.

The weekend before he left, I tried to think of things that would be good to get checked off my to-do list, specifically things that were a little more time/space involved and that I might not normally have the opportunity to do.  So with my extra time/space came my first big furniture painting project… our tv stand.

Over the last few years, one of the biggest things I’ve learned about furniture is that you don’t have to use something where it was made to go, for example a dresser can be used as a night stand, an sofa table for a desk, and in my case for this project a china cabinet base for a tv stand.

tv stand - before | Atwell Adventures

Before we moved into our apartment, I tried to think of pieces that would give us more functional storage without taking up to much space, and bonus points if we already owned the piece.  Well we didn’t own this piece, but my parents did and weren’t using it so it came with us to North Carolina and has made itself at home in our living room.

I knew I wanted to paint it, but I took my time trying to decide on a color that would act as a neutral but still be fun.  When I came across my dream kitchen over at Life In Grace Blog, I knew the green color she used would work on our tv stand too. When I showed it to G, he said he liked it – and with those words of approval, we were all set.

Great Barrington Green, you are my new friend.

Great Barrington Green

To ease it to the project of painting a large piece, I started out with a room divider that needed some love. I disassembled it, removed the hardware and got to put one of my favorite wedding gifts to use: our sander!


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Since this was my first {of many} painting projects, I decided to test out a chalk paint recipe I had read about.  Chalk paint goes on thicker, doesn’t require sanding {I still sanded just to make sure it would stick}, is good for distressing, and dries fast. The recipe I used called for 1 tablespoon plaster of paris and 1 tablespoon of water, and once they are mixed well add my 8 oz. of paint.

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Honestly, after the first coat I was less than pleased.  I think I needed to add a little bit more plaster of paris.  I decided to keep on going.

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After letting the first and second coats dry, I was left with a nice chalky even finish… exactly what I was going for! It worked!

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So four of these panels front and back later, I was finished and ready to reassemble.  This project is still in the works –  I’m planning on adding some fabric to the middle of the screen… maybe something like this?

So after I gained a little bit of chalk paint confidence it was time to get to work on our tv stand.  I took out all the drawers/doors {except for the middle door – it doesn’t come out, and the bottom right door which screws were not playing nice}, removed the hardware, placed a drop cloth underneath the cabinet, and got to work.  Once again, I sanded for my first step even though it says you don’t have to.

After the first coat I was worried again. I guess because this wood was dark, it made sure to show itself through. All I could think was – this is going to me until Friday when G gets home… and its only Tuesday… or is today Wednesday? I don’t know.

first coat | Atwell Adventures

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But shortly after applying the second coat and stepping back – I let out a squeal and sent a text to G! It worked!  The only thing left to do was wax it {I used Minwax Paste Finishing Wax}.

tv stand - during | Atwell Adventures

One thing that really surprised me was how quickly I was able to do this.  It usually takes me for-e-verrrrr to paint something but this only took about 4 hours from start to finish – which is very fast for me.

And now we have one less piece of brown in our apartment!

tv stand - after | Atwell Adventures

Ten points: Rachel.

Next up on my painting schedule… our dining room table and chairs, and this mirror I found on Craigslist {and about 6 other things}.

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Until then, I’m enjoying having my husband at home and back on the right side of the bed again.

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Even if it takes more time making the bed in the morning.

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friday the 13th

Happy Friday the 13th!

Did you know that G asked for my number on Friday the 13th? Yep – Friday, April 13, 2012. I responded by saying, “Hmmmm… I don’t know if giving you my number on Friday the 13th is a good idea or not, but here goes…”.

And then a few months later, we decided it would be a good idea to get married in 2013.

So, take that number 13 – I guess its been pretty lucky* for us.

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And while we are on the subject of luck, how’s this for a throwback?

*I really don’t believe in luck – I believe in a God who knows exactly what we need, exactly when we need it. Just wanted to clarify that for everyone. 🙂