31 days

31 days – fall 2013 – money

Let’s talk about the money, honey.

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Gary and I are 26 years old {until next Monday when I turn the big 2-7!}. We both finished college with student loans. We have cars that we were still paying off when we got married. We both held full time jobs post-college. We don’t have credit cards.

So with all of these factors, we’re learning new things about money and being accountable to one another as husband and wife.

Thankfully, with communicating, goal setting, budgeting, helpful tools, and finding ways to save, the lessons have been pretty easy so far.

Another lesson for me that has been big these days is contentment. It’s so easy to spend, spend, spend but I’ve been challenged these early days of marriage to be a little more thoughtful of my spending {more on this later in the series}.

Coincidentally, I read these verses in Hebrews 13 this morning that were a much needed reminder:

“Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have,
for He has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”
So we can confidently say, “The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?”

What a sweet reminder. Only the Lord – who will never us or forsake us – is the only one who can truly satisfy.

Now excuse me, as I go print off these words to attach to my debit card.

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31 days

31 days – fall 2013 – growing towards God

Wrapping up how my faith has changed since becoming a newlywed, I’ll leave you with this…

the closer we move towards God, the closer we move towards each otherTrue?

I know it has been for me.

And I can’t wait to keep moving closer to my God and my G!

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31 days

31 days – fall 2013 – praying together

Yesterday, we hit another milestone as newlyweds… the big 3!

Three MONTHS that is – we have officially been married for a total of 93 days according to our wedding website.

We celebrated our three month-a-versary by making having breakfast for dinner! Can you really ever go wrong with that?  I shared a picture on instagram of our candlelight affair… pancakes, eggs, baked apple crisp {which we didn’t even touch}, fruit, syrup, sugar, coffee, and homemade whipped cream. Buddy the Elf would have been proud. {Pssst- did you know that you can make your own whip cream? Goodbye cool whip and all your crazy ingredients that taste so good. You’ve been replaced.}

three month-a-versary

It was a sweet time together talking about the usual day to day things, the past few months, and also all of the unknown that lies ahead.

It seems like there is quite a bit of uncertainty right now in our life. Where will we be next? Should G start seminary right away? Should I go back to work?

With all of these questions that tend to flood my mind, I find alot of comfort in my own daily prayer time with God.

But something new I’ve been able to share with G these last few months is praying together as a couple.

When we pray together, it not only draws us closer to Him, but it also draws us closer together because we are reminded of our purpose together: to know Him more and to make Him known to others.

When we approach our Father together, asking for His will, guidance, and plan to prevail over anything we want for our selves, it reminds me that He knows the path before us and we just need to continue to seek Him.

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